n Monday, we posted an article on how to write a formal letter. Today, we’re going down a more colloquial route.
When I speak to people in English, I tend to use a lot of filler words such as “Um...” and “Like...” while I gather my thoughts. Perhaps I’m not quite as eloquent as most people.
For us, we say “那个” (nèi ge) to fill a pause. It’s the equivalent to “Um, uh, er, that is, that one,” etc.
The problem with “那个” (pronounced “nay-ge” or “nah-ge”) as a filler word is that it sounds a little similar the N-word in English. The famous comedian, Russell Peters, pointed this out in one of his standup shows. It is unfortunate that such a common word in the Chinese language can be so misunderstood in English.
I’ve even had friends approach me and ask me why Chinese people were so obsessed with saying the “N-word.” No, we’re not trying to insult anyone, and no, we are not trying to emulate certain rap lyrics. We are simply filling an empty pause as we gather our thoughts.
HERE ARE SOME OTHER COMMON FILLER WORDS:
“这个...” (zhè ge) = “this”
“就是...” (jiù shì) = “that is…”
“嗯...” (en) = “Um...”
“怎么说...” (zěn me shuō) = “What is it / How do I say it…”
HERE ARE SOME EXAMPLES OF THE FILLER WORDS IN USE:
“What did you do yesterday?”
“Um… I went to the dentist.”
“Let’s get Japanese food today, okay?”
“Where did you go last night?
“I went to, um… what is it… KTV with some friends.”
“我跟朋友去， 那个... 怎么说... 唱卡拉OK了。”
It’s funny how learning to “um” and “uh” in a language can make you sound more like a native speaker. But if you think about it, this sentence would just sound odd:
“Um… 我, like，去看牙了。”
Obviously, when it comes to speaking a foreign language, we all want to sound as eloquent as possible. However, keep in mind that using the correct filler words may actually make you soundmore fluent in the long haul.
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