A Laowai "老外 (lǎo wài) is a foreigner that lives in China. These are often expats, long-term travelers, or even trailing spouses known as "Guy-Tais." Here are 10 steps to become a local Laowai.
Aside from dealing with a language barrier, many laowais often experience culture shock when first moving to China. Not to worry! With these 10 steps, you'll be on your way to being a local in no time. Check out the infographic below:
[Text from infographic]
A Laowai is a local foreigner who is experienced with Chinese culture.
China is a wonderful and interesting place to visit regardless of whether you are going there on business, pleasure, or to meet the love of your life. Keep in mind that you will most likely find yourself struggling with some culture shock.
Therefore, here are some key points to keep in mind whilst visiting China; follow them closely and you will be more than just another foreigner. You’ll be a local Laowai!
1. English is not widespread – But a little effort trying to speak Chinese goes a long way.
Although you will see the word “international” written on almost ever hotel, shopping mall, or school in China, the only thing international about them are the flags hanging outside. Most Chinese people cannot speak English well or are sometimes horrified to even try. Being able to speak a little Chinese will not get you too far, but at least you can amuse them by trying and eventually win their admiration.
2. Steer away from Fake Taxis
In China, not everybody that offers you help is your friend. As a rule of thumb if someone offers to willingly help you, they might actually be helping themselves. Taxis are a precious commodity in large Chinese cities these days, so if a taxi driver comes looking for you, then your alarm bells should start to ring
3. Toilets are sometimes holes on the floor
Don’t go to a public bathroom in China if you are suffering from knee problems. You will be required to do a lot of squatting, so make sure you ar e in good shape. Avoid further surprises by always having a pack of tissue paper with you. You will find out why soon enough
4. Taboo topics
Do you want to talk about a big red pimple on your nose? Feel like chatting about that hemorrhoid operation you had last year? Not in the mood? Well, that is how Chinese people feel about these taboo topics: Politics, Tibet, Taiwan, Human Rights, Internet Censorship. Avoid them and you should be okay.
5. On your marks, get set, BARGAIN!
If you thought Kung Fu was China’s national sport, then think again. The art of bargaining is where Chinese people excel. Unless you are in a fixed price store or a branded goods shop, never accept the first price you get and fight hard for that extra discount.
6. The Emperors are gone and cash is now the new king!
There is an ATM on almost every corner in China these days, but carry enough cash at all times just in case they’re not working. Plus, many places prefer not to take credit cards.
7. Avoid referring to the elderly by their actual name
At last, something that remotely resembles Western culture! Just like in most western countries, it is considered impolite to call seniors by their firt name. In China, you should avoid using their names altogether.
8. Never put your chopsticks in a bowl of rice
Don’t ruin everyone’s appetite – how would you feel if someone wrote your name on a grave (while you’re still alive)? That’s exactly how the Chinese feel when you stick your chopsticks like this in your rice. Instead, lay them balanced on the edge of the bowl.
9. Numerology Is a prominent issue in China
Superstition plays a big role in China. And, in the land of superstitions, numbers are key. Keep in mind that the numbers 3 and 8 are considered to bring good fortune, whilst the number 4 is, like many other things, associated with death.
10. Not every gift will be received with a smile.
In China, gifts hold secret meanings. If you don’t want to insult someone, or be insulted, make sure you get your gifts right. Don’t ever give a man a “green hat,” as that would be the same as calling him a cuckold. Clocks and white wrappings should also be avoided since they carry the meaning of death.
We hope this post was helpful. With this steps, you’re well on your way to be a local Laowai!
Infographic provided by our friends at Learn Mandarin Now. You can also check out Learn Mandarin Now's interview of TutorMing here, where we discuss our top 10 tips on learning Mandarin Chinese.
Founded in 2004, TutorGroup, the parent company of TutorMing, created the first commercially available synchronous learning portal in the world. TutorGroup offers TutorMing for Chinese learning. For English learning, it offers VIPABC, TutorABC, and TutorABCJr. The company is backed by Alibaba, Softbank, Temasek, and Qiming Ventures.